The Girls Say:
- Affection – A good old-fashioned cuddle, a kiss goodbye in the morning, and another when he gets home.
- Little gestures that show that he cares – Like popping a bar of your favorite chocolate into your bag for you to find when you get to the office.
- Unexpected compliments – Noticing a new hairstyle, or the hard-earned loss of a kilo or two.
- Helping out around the house – Who says real men don’t wash up after a meal? It’s acts like this that cement a relationship.
- Chivalry – Yes, even grown up modern ladies love small gestures like having the door opened for them, and someone to help them put on their coat.
- Appreciation – A little ‘Thank you’ goes a long way. Even if you are happy to shoulder most of the domestic workload, it’s great when someone notices.
- Honest criticism – When delivered with love it means that he just wants you to become the very best version of yourself.
- Be my hero – OK, so ladies can cut a mean deal in business and drive like a pro, but we still need to feel cherished and protected. Nothing beats being taken care of by a man who steps in and does what is needed when it is needed. When he takes care of you, and allows you to be a woman in his presence.
The Guys Say:
- Unconditional support – We do our best, we want to be the best guy in the world for our lady. Be there, cheering us on, even if we fall flat on our faces occasionally.
- Be truthful – Relationships are built on trust. Nothing is so scary that it can’t be worked through… together.
- Be real – Sure, we love it when you dress up and knock our socks off. But true beauty shines through when you go natural, and kick back.
- Remember to communicate – Not just yada yada yada. Say what you mean, share your thoughts, your ideas, your fears and triumphs.
- Be emotionally mature – Sulking and tantrums are for kids. And we are grown up now. Differences can be worked out and make us stronger.
- Affection – Simple gestures, a peck on the cheek, a caress or hug. Best of all when we aren’t expecting it.
- Confidence – Nothing makes a woman shine more than believing in herself.
- Independence – You know we are there to be your rock and protector if things get tough. But we really get a buzz out of watching the lady we love carve out her niche in the world.
