When the Lights Go Out…

by now there are quite a few experts around town when it comes to keeping things buzzing. We have already given the update on diesel-fuelled generators, but what are the greener options? Cairo West Magazine was relieved to find both natural gas and solar powered backup units available in the market, so read on….

Solar Powered Units

With an average of close to 300 hours of sunshine per month it seems a shame not to utilise this natural source of energy. Local manufacturers have cottoned on to the fact that there is a growing market for solar power, for a wide variety of purposes. We look at the availability of harnessed solar power to help us cope with blackouts during the long summer ahead, through the use of photovoltaic batteries, which come in various sizes.  Prices generally start from around EGP 15 000, ranging upwards to around EGP 60 000, for initial setup. As each setup is configured to the purchaser’s requirements enquiries need to be directed to the sales teams and factories, who will then prepare a quote.

 

Egreen

Egreen is working to enhance the role of sustainable development for the country by providing customers with the reliable solutions for renewable energy. They aim to minimize the use of fossil fuel and carbon emissions. They can custom-build photovoltaic units to handle different loads, such as lighting, televisions, computers, electronic devices and all other power consumers.

Cost depends on a variety of factors such as changing current light sources with LED lights, ongoing or emergency use and the number of hours required from the system.

www.egreen-eg.com

 

Egyptian Solar Energy Systems Company

Egyptian Solar Energy Systems Company design, manufacture, install and service solar hot water systems for all domestic and industrial applications including solar heating systems for swimming pools. The company also assembles and installs solar electric power systems using             photovoltaic panels.

www.egyptsolar.net

Heliomisr

Heliomisr is an Egyptian company that specializes in manufacturing solar-powered generators for homes, companies, offices, and clinics as a safe alternative to electric power during power cut periods, or in rural areas.

www.heliomisr.com

 

Innovations Unlimited Egypt

With a strong track record of over five years in the Gulf, Innovations Unlimited (IU), now in Egypt, provide solar power solutions across a wide spectrum of applications ranging from residential and commercial power back up solutions to full-scale solar power farms. IU leverages state-of-the-art Austrian technology with solutions guaranteed for over 5 years. Their Powerbacker™ solutions include battery packs that charge from your normal home electricity, to photovoltaic panels that harness solar energy, the coverage ranges from 2 to 10 kWh, designed to support to A/Cs, TVs, lights, refrigerators, and more for up to 5 hours.   Solutions can be further customized depending on client needs.

IU is located at 113 Gamal Abdel Nasser St. Sheikh Zayed, Cairo.

www.iu-me.com

info-eg@iu-me.com

 

Natural Gas

Egypt Power

Egypt Power has recently introduced Generac Generators, powered by natural gas, into the market. Their home-standby generator covers you when the power goes out; it comes on automatically, protecting you and your home 24/7. The powerful, reliable Guardian Series is available to those living in areas with 50 Hz utility service. A full line, from 8 to 13 kVA is available to provide essential circuit or whole house backup power protection for many homes. Many can even back up a central air conditioner while protecting the remaining rooms in your home, including home theatres and offices. Enquiries should be sent directly to their sales team.

www.egypt-power.com

Ney Lounge

A Multi-Leveled Venue to Eat, Hang-out, and come back to!

By Hilary Diack

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“Breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, dine like a pauper”. Words that rang particularly true that day for this writer who had risen at the crack of dawn, hit the ground running, to be absolutely famished as 9 am rolled around. All the better reason to pop into Ney Lounge in Zamalek for one of their spectacular breakfasts.

I didn’t expect to find many other early risers in this spacious multileveled building at such an hour, but the pleasantly shady courtyard already had quite a few small groups scattered around on comfortable seating. Although Ney Lounge is still in its soft-opening phase, it has become a poorly-kept secret, judging by its popularity. Part of its charm lies in the fact that being an entire building, it has the space to offer various spots and nooks and crannies over several levels. Upon entering you find yourself in a main restaurant and lounge, with a quirky library slightly off to the side. Just had to love the hanging lamps with well-worn books suspended from them, adding to the ambience. There is a special touch added to the ladies’ bathroom, but that you need to discover for yourselves. Further inside there is an elegant secluded executive lounge, offering facilities for business and social meetings needing a level of privacy.

After strolling through to the terrace overlooking the spacious courtyard garden I ordered scrambled eggs on a lightly toasted round of home-baked bread, garnished with a small grilled tomato. The additional garnish of miniscule cornichons and pickled onions left me somewhat bemused, but I suppose breakfast is a highly personal thing. The eggs were cooked to perfection, and where washed down with a tall glass of freshly squeezed orange juice, which is all that was needed, but I just couldn’t pass up those freshly baked croissants, large, buttery, melt-in-the-mouth and generously proportioned. That called for a cappuccino, and it was just the right size. Bottomless!

You can hardly go rushing off after such a great breakfast, so I took time to wander around and explore. ‘Lounge’ is actually a bit of a misnomer, when it has so much more. The kids’ area is at the rear of the courtyard, close enough to for parents to know what mischief they are getting up to, but far enough not to disturb anyone lounging around catching the programs showing on the many flat-screen TV’s discreetly positioned throughout. The upper level may soon house a fine dining venue, the terrace positioned at the entrance of the building, Little Ney, caters to anyone wanting a quick snack. Also planned is a lower ground level snack-style food outlet for quick take-aways and pizza. The menu items normally offered for lunch and dinner are mainly European, with plenty of options, so there is enough choice to please all palates. Their in-house bakery not only supplies their own bread and pastry selection, but has a handy patisserie as well with some rather yummy looking items.

I have already put Ney Lounge on my hot list for summer. It would lend itself wonderfully to lazy summer evenings, and during Ramadan it will serve both iftar and sohour. And with so many TV’s I can see it being a great venue for watching the World Cup 2014 in the best of style.

 

Your At-Home Yoga Guide

By Maggie Balbaa

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Yoga is a helpful component in a mind-body-soul wellbeing formula. For a healthy Yogi lifestyle, yoga should ideally be practiced 3 to 5 times a week, 40 to 60 minutes each day. But what if you do not find the time to go to class? Here is your quick guide to a daily do-at-home yoga routine. For this, we sought the knowledge of naturopath and yoga teacher Dr. Amit Negi of Maulana Azad Centre for Indian Culture.

What are three beneficial yoga poses?  And what does each one bring when practiced?

Yoga has more than 72000 asana (poses). Here are three that are important for most people. Each asana should be held for 30-40 seconds.

1. Seated Forward Bend Yoga Pose (Paschimottanasana): This pose is for stretching lower back and also tones the abdominal and pelvic organs.

 

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2. Camel Pose (Ustrasana): This posture is great for people with heart and lung problems.

 

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3. Rabbit Pose (Shashankasana): This posture can help people with both high and low blood pressure and can help with sleep.

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During all of these poses the most important thing is to concentrate on breathing.

An Easy Morning or Evening Routine

Inhale and exhale for 5 to 10 minutes. Inhaling should be deep with the chest and belly moving upwards and forwards. Exhale by drawing them in. Breathing for yoga is in and out through the nose, with the mouth closed.

Then do the Sun Salutation Routine (Surya Namaskar) for 10 minutes (3-4 times).

Then you repeat Paschimottanasana pose, Camel pose and Rabbit pose for 15 seconds  each pose. This can be repeated as needed.

Finish with the Shavasana (Death pose) for 5 to 10 minutes, and redo breathing again for 5 to 10 minutes.

After one month, you should notice an improvement in your body; you can then change asana according to the body’s requirements. You can also add standing poses such as the Tree pose (Vriksasana), Triangle pose (Trikonasana) and Warrior pose (Virabhadrasana).

www.indembcairo.com/en-us/bilateral/indiaegypt/cultural/macic.aspx

 

Doum Centre

On Saturday 3rd of March, Doum Cultural Foundation inaugurated “Doum Art”.  This new exhibition space was launched with an art exhibition featuring approximately 70 pieces by Egyptian artists such as George Bahgoury, Esmat Dawstashi, Samir Fouad, Mostafa Rahma, Yasser Ge’eissa, Mahmoud El Biblawy, and Sorour ‘Elwany.  These pieces are being offered at reasonable prices to promote and encourage public interest in art. This exhibition is running until 20th May, after which another exhibition will be launched.

Doum Art  hopes to give the opportunity to rising artists to display their work, as well as hosting a variety of other cultural eventssuch as seminars, book signings and art talks.  Situated at 20 Adly Street, the space is easily accessible to many, and is planning a busy calendar of both literary and artistic events.

www.doumculture.or

facebook.com/DoumCulturalFoundation

twitter.com/doum_culture

 

Cairo Kids Got Talent Festival

Organized by Cairo West Magazine at Arkan Plaza On May 9th

 

Cairo East Magazine’s very first Kids Got Talent Festival took place at Arkan Plaza, Sheikh Zayed on Friday May 9th. A steady stream of visitors flocked to this much-awaited event throughout the day, with many staying on to enjoy the balmy evening breeze at the cafés and restaurants.

Cairo East Magazine met up with some participants after the show, to learn more about their interests and ambitions.

The Talent Show – Cairo East Magazine Introduces Some of our Future Rising Stars!

Laila Shaaban, dancer, 9 yrs old

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CEM: Laila, when did you start dancing?

Laila: The first time I danced in public was a couple of years ago. I have been dancing since I was small, picking up ideas from YouTube and TV. I don’t take lessons although I admit there could be a benefit. I really want to develop my own style.

Who is your favourite star in Egypt?

I really admire Soad Hosni.

 

What about your favourite international singer or group?

It would have to be One Direction.

Which classes do you enjoy most at school?

I most enjoy art, sports and science. I work hard to be an A-level student.

What would you like to do when you finish your education?

Much as I love dancing I actually plan to study medicine and would eventually like to become Minister of Health.

How do you spend your free time?

I keep active with basketball and squash, and also enjoy relaxing with my parents and older sister. We love playing board games when we have time.

What is your favourite food?

A toss-up between barbecued steak and khoshari.

If you could choose where to go on holiday this summer where would it be?

South Africa, to enjoy nature and the animals, or Brazil.

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Zeina Bassem, hip-hop dancer, 11 yrs old

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CEM: Zeina, tell us how long you have been dancing?

Zeina: Really, it is too long ago to remember. I started studying ballet seriously when I was six years old, and I go to lessons twice a week at the Cairo Opera Ballet.

So, who is your favorite international singer or group?

I like Shakira and Justine Bieber.

Which classes do you enjoy most at school?

I most enjoy art and English.

What would you like to do when you finish your education?

Definitely something to do with dance, either ballet or hip-hop.

How do you spend your free time?

I enjoy going out with my friends to places like Americana Plaza and Dandy Mall.

What is your favorite food?

Fries and burgers.

If you could choose where to go on holiday this summer where would it be?

Los Angeles, or to visit my cousins in Belgium. But we will probably go to the North Coast as usual.

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Rahim, dub-step dancer, 9 yrs old

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CEM: Rahim, how did you get into Dub-Step?

Rahim: I saw a movie called Step Up, and ever since then I have been watching dancing on YouTube whenever I can. I don’t take lessons but really like working out my own routines.

Who is your favorite international dancer or group?

Adam Sevani, he starred in Step Up.

Which classes do you enjoy most at school?

I like English.

What would you like to do when you finish your education?

I know it is hard work, but I would like to become a professional dancer.

How do you spend your free time?

I play guitar, practise my dancing, and play water polo to keep fit. I have a younger brother and sister, so we often make family visits to the cinema.

If you could choose where to go on holiday this summer where would it be?

Dubai, I love it. I went two weeks ago and can’t wait to visit again.

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Watariano Band – Farida Gad (12), Farouk Gad (12), Mostafa Morsi (18), Mohamed Ramy (13),  Jana Khafaga (10), Zeinab Moneib (11).

 

CEM: Please tell us how the band started?

Farida and Farouk’s mom is our band manager. She used to take us all to classical oriental concerts and we loved the music. We were all involved in playing instruments so the band came together a couple of years ago. We have played in El Sawy Culture Wheel and Cairo Opera House. We chose the name Watariano, to represent the stringed instrument, watar, and the piano.

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Can you tell us something about yourselves?

Mostafa Morsi (18): I play piano and study at Trinity College London. I have always loved singing, ever since I was small. I have just started my studies in Architectural Engineering, and also enjoy photography, reading and composing music. Every sort of music appeals to me, I enjoy listening to Nesma Maghoub, Andrea Bocelli, jazz, opera and pop, as well as traditional Arabic music. My favorite meal is chicken, cooked any style, and I would love to visit England.

Mohamed Ramy (13): I play oud, and take private lessons. I read as much as possible when I have free time; it opens your mind to the world. Currently my favorite writer is John Green. My favorite classes at school are human rights and social studies. I have been swimming for nine years and I train hard.  I have a younger sister whom I sometimes tease, but she knows I really love her. My favorite Egyptian band is Cairokee, I love Lebanese food and sushi, and would really like to visit Antarctica.

Farida Gad (12): Farouk’s twin sister. I play marimba, tabla and piano. I also sing, I joined a choir in our club when I was only four years old. My favorite performers are Adele and Mohamed Mohsen, and I love karaoke. I hope I can follow a career in music eventually, although I do enjoy math and English literature at school. When I have free time I go out to restaurants, the club or movies with my friends. My favorite meals are lasagne and khoshari, (but not together). I can cook a little myself.

Farouk Gad (12): I am Farida’s twin brother. I sing, and play drums, piano, saxophone, recorder, trumpet and tabla. I have to practise in the basement though. I download music all the time, and currently am really into Jason Mraz. Although I love music my dream would be to enter the field of advanced automotive design. Food-wise I prefer healthy options and Chinese cuisine, junk food is not my thing. I play basketball in my free time, as well as watching Discovery Channel and Discovery Science on TV. My next holiday will hopefully be Dubai, I have been there before and really enjoyed it.

Zeina Mouneib (11): I play anoun. I chose this old type of instrument because it has a very distinctive tone. I also started singing when I was around four years old, I used to join in with the music on the TV, and maybe that is why I am a big fan of karaoke. I have been told I have prefect pitch. My favourite artist is Christina Aguilera, and I definitely want to enter the world of music when I finish my studies. Most of my free time is spent listening to music, turned up as loud as possible. Food-wise my favourite dish is molokhia with chicken and rice, and my hobbies are running, dancing and keeping fit. My dream holiday is Greece, I love the architecture, the language and the music.

Jana Khafaga (10): I have two sisters and a brother who is currently studying in Canada. I am the baby of the family. I started screaming around the house when I was only two, I could sing before I could speak. I play piano, drums and xylophone, and my favourite lessons at school are music and P.E. I am fairly sure that I would like to be a professional singer and musician when I finish my studies. My favorite food is molokhia and rice. In my free time I enjoy drawing, swimming, tennis and basketball. Of course, I spend time surfing the internet for good music to listen to as well. I am looking forward to going to the USA and Canada this summer.

The Girlz – Farida Sadek (10), Basma Tarek (10), Jana El Ezzaby (11), Hana Hany (10).

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CEM: Please tell us how the band started?

We started dancing as a group at school. Our teacher was very encouraging so we kept practising and working on our routines together.

Can you tell us something about yourselves?

Farida Sadek (10): I started dancing before I could walk; I dance whenever I get the chance. My big dream is to become a professional dancer, up on stage, with the spotlight on my face. I plan to make it to Hollywood someday. At the moment my favorite groups are Little Mix and One Direction. In my free time I practise dancing and singing, as well as playing tennis. I also enjoy clowning around! My favourite food is Chicken Burgers.

Basma Tarek (10): I have always loved music, and started dancing when I was about three years old. I don’t take any dance lessons as I like to create the moves by myself in front of a mirror. My favorite groups at present are Little Mix and R5. I love good food, especially sushi, and can already cook quite a few dishes by myself. I want to become a professional dancer and singer when I finish my studies. Of course, it is a dream of mine to visit Hollywood, as well as Barcelona, Madrid and Rome.

Jana El Ezzaby (11): I have always been musical and have a talent for dancing. I teach myself as I really don’t like anyone telling me how to create my moves. My favorite groups are One Direction and Little Mix. My top subjects at school are science and music, and in my free time I enjoy drawing and tennis. My choice for a meal out would have to be sushi and teppan-yaki. Dance is my big love though, I hope to follow it as a career. I would also love to go to Hollywood, but can’t complain about our family plans to go to Barcelona and Paris this summer!

Hana Hany (10): I can’t remember when I first started dancing, it was so long ago. Our group likes to work out routines together, we get a lot of ideas from watching Disney Channel on TV. All of my hobbies seem to revolve around dancing, singing, acting and art, but I still enjoy playing card games with my family when we get a chance. My totally favorite meal is barbequed steak with mashed potatoes and Caesar Salad. Hollywood is on my to-visit list, but the place I go to most is Paris, I have been quite a few times. The Eiffel Tower is beautiful.

Arttalks “Love Affair” Exhibition

 

Guirguis Lotfy’s second solo exhibition at ArtTalks “LOVE AFFAIR” opened on Tuesday May 20th at 8 El Kamel Mohamed Street. Zamalek and will run until June 17th 2014.

In Love Affair, Lotfy’s stunning canvases proudly immortalize our collective cultural identity and draw from our most important common denominator – our popular rituals. Showcasing works from the early 1990s until today, Love Affair is a mini-voyage into Lotfy’s unparalleled knowledge of these rituals, many of which are still practiced in contemporary Egypt; others long forgotten.

The apparent simplicity and naivety of his paintings narrating every day mundane scenes of every day mundane people seize the spirit, authenticity and tolerance of Egyptians. His work turns the ordinary into extraordinary renditions of who we truly are and ‘reveal the light that comes from people.

Guirguis Lotfy was born in 1955 in Alexandria, where he works and lives. He holds a BFA from Alexandria’s faculty of fine arts and an MFA and a PhD from the Helwan Faculty of Fine Arts in Cairo. Both theses were supervised by two of Egypt’s most important pioneer artists – Hamed Nada and Hamed Owais, whom he befriended until their deaths.

www.arttalks.org

Online Personal training

Online Personal training

The latest fitness fad is for personal trainers to work with their clients by email rather than in person.

By Lydia Schoonderbeek

 

The popularity of online personal training is on the rise. In many ways, it’s exactly like being trained by an expert in a gym, you’re given a personalized program that you have to fulfill in order to attain your goals. The crucial difference of course, is that the trainer isn’t next to you when you work out. But recently most people find it an effective and time-efficient way to work out, others may miss the personal touch of a face-to-face session, but you can train and take your personal trainer with you wherever you go either on your laptop, tablet or smartphone. That being said, there are definitely some pros and cons to using an online person trainer.

Most of us cannot afford to have a personal trainer with us at every session, therefore online training is a valuable and cost-effective method for continuous training and weight loss and overall productivity enhancement that provides individuals with a dedicated personalized program tailored to their needs.

The Positives

1. Access to expert advice. Many international fitness professionals are already offering online versions of their training services, which is great, because it provides instant access to highly skilled trainers. A good reputation can travel a long way in the fitness industry, so online training allows people to work under big name trainers.  And it’s not just the big names you can seek out: online training also gives you access to specialists in specific areas. Rather than be limited to the knowledge base of the trainers at your local gym, you can call upon the advanced understanding of people from all over the world.

2. Easy to understand a trainer’s ability. With our digital world as socially connected as it is, you can learn a lot about a potential online trainer long before you make first contact.

3. Freedom of location and time. Having an online personal trainer deliver a workout program to you electronically means that you can access your workout on your mobile devices at any time and in any location, which is great for those that travel frequently or do not want to be restricted by gym opening times.

4. On-going support. Many online trainers provide comprehensive online support in the form of answers to emails, dietary guidelines and the ability to have your weekly food journal assessed. With these perks built into the initial upfront costs you are guaranteed personal attention throughout your customer experience.

The Negatives

Nobody spotting for correct technique. Due to the remote nature of online training, by definition there is no live trainer spotting for correct technique. This could drastically reduce the efficiency of the workout, and even make it dangerous.

Motivation. While a high quality program can be delivered with ease over the phone or by email, there’s zero guarantee that it will be successfully completed. One of the main benefits of working with a personal trainer is that they get you through your workouts even when you don’t want to be there. That extra motivation – to actually turn up at the gym, and to push through tough workouts – just isn’t available through an online program.

Here are just some of the sites you can research if you are interested in training online:

1. www.sallymatterson.com.au

2. www.clearlypossible.com

3. www.itrain.com

4. www.trainonline.com

5. www.ibodz.com

Men & Therapy

Man sharing problems with psychologist

Dr. Abdel Nasser Omar

on a Vital Issue

By Hilary Diack

Ten years ago therapy was a taboo subject, something to be discussed in hushed tones, if at all. Now there is a greater public awareness, thanks to media coverage and the establishment of more professional facilities, the stigma has been lifted. Cairo West Magazine had an insightful chat with Dr. Abdel Nasser Omar, Professor of Psychiatry at Ain Shams University and CEO of Al Mashfa Hospital about the ins and outs of therapy.

CWM: The perception is that women are more likely to seek the services of a psychiatrist than men, especially in Egypt. Why is this case?

AO: In Egyptian culture and society males have traditionally been raised to hide any emotions, which are considered a sign of weakness, and maintain an image of being in control. This is why they do tend to leave situations until they are really unmanageable before seeking professional help. Nowadays, thanks to more information being disseminated to the public at large via television, such as my weekly programme, and other forms of media, we see an increasing number of men coming for consultations and opening up about their problems.

What ratio do you see?

Currently it is around three to one, with women predominating. There is an increase of males seeking help though, often with the support of their spouses, couples come together much of the time.

What do you attribute this increase to?

Much of it has been since the events of January 2011, through the economy being hit and a related drop in job security and family incomes.  Again, this goes back to the traditional male role of being breadwinner and provider for his family. It is not only a matter of personal self- esteem and confidence, in Egypt there is a limited amount of privacy,  so the parents, in-laws, and even the grandparents can be a source of criticism and pressure. It is not surprising to see so many men struggling with severe depression, anxiety and loss of self-esteem as they find it more difficult to make ends meet.  It is worth noting that the middle classes tend to fare better, where both the man and woman are working and sharing the financial burden and domestic responsibilities. There is more empathy due to the shared interest in survival and stability.

Wouldn’t the higher income brackets also suffer fewer cases?

Not necessarily, they have also been impacted. They are under even more pressure to maintain their social standing and lifestyle; it can be hard for family members to accept reduced financial circumstances. It can be difficult for both wives and children to cope with peer pressure if they can’t “keep up”.

Man sharing problems with psychologist

Do men and women handle stress differently?

Definitely. Women have more acceptance of emotional behaviour and therefore are more able to open up with friends and discuss matters. Men find this difficult as exposing any insecurity impacts their ego and pride. Men have a different schematic of the brain and tend to find an outlet through physical activity, such as sport, which can provide a temporary solution.

What general issues do men come to you for?

Apart from substance addiction, which is an issue that can be linked, we encounter stress and depression, and sexual issues.

We see a lot of issues related to sexual dysfunction. We must remember that this is a conservative society with limited recourse to sex education for most of the community. Many men enter the physical side of marriage either in a state of ignorance, or armed with a warped vision of their role due to hours of internet porn-watching. This results in stress for their partner, either way. Should sensible sex education be added to the high school curriculum we might see a healthier approach. The normal awakening of a person’s libido that occurs at puberty has no outlet due to the conservative nature of our society and often leads to sexual situations within the domestic environment, resulting in a high incidence of incest.

Obviously this type of sexual activity is furtive and rushed, and has accompanying feelings of guilt and remorse. A pattern of premature ejaculation can follow through into adult years.

In many cases the wife will bring her husband, as it is considered a marital duty for him to ‘perform’.  In spite of the fact that erectile dysfunction can occur normally 30 to 40% of the time in sexual intercourse due to tiredness or stress, a women may feel that she is not doing enough to attract him.

What benefits do men usually recognize after they have undergone therapy?

We focus on cognitive behaviour therapy, men need to understand the patterns, and change their perception of problems. By becoming solution-oriented they can learn to handle stress in a healthier way. They also learn to become more at home with expressing emotions and tenderness in relationships and not see them as a sign of weakness. In critical cases we sometimes need to use short term medication in conjunction with counselling.

What signs should a man be on the lookout for as an indication that he should seek help?

He should look out for an increased edginess, restlessness, irritability, insomnia, forgetfulness, lower libido, anhedonia (the inability to find pleasure in any normally enjoyable activity), and domestic disharmony.

What about domestic violence?

Certainly, this can occur more in situations where a man feels unable to cope. It is interesting though to note that for every five instances of wife-beating there is one of a wife beating her husband.

Does infidelity crop up?

Yes, and contrary to my pre-conceived expectations as a young doctor, I have found over the years that in cases of a wife straying generally the husband seeks reconciliation rather than the retribution or revenge I had thought would be the traditional reaction. It is often blamed on a temporary lapse of sanity or being the influence of a shaitan, or devil, absolving the woman of any blame.

When a husband is unfaithful it often seems to be more easily accepted by the wife, being put down to a natural part of male behaviour. Whichever the case, counselling can be therapeutic for both parties.

Is there a co-relation between socio-economic class and people coming for psychiatric help?

Now that psychiatric counselling has become more widely accepted we have patients from all segments of the community, including far-flung areas. Again, having the subject aired on television has helped open up people’s willingness to address issues.

What advice would you offer parents when it comes to raising their sons to be psychologically healthy?

Roles of dependence, independence and interdependence are at the core.

It is just as damaging to be over-protective as it is to be hostile, it is better to take the middle road and balance discipline with shared fun. A child should be given autonomy as early as possible, they should learn to think, analyse, and become emotionally and psychologically independent, but be there to discuss things with them when they ask for guidance. By developing their judgment and self-respect they will be able to cope with the situations they face socially as they grow up. They should be given tasks and responsibilities from an early age as well to develop their self-confidence and self- discipline. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give them plenty of love and affection as well, that is essential for the bonding of the whole family.

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20 Top Songs To Workout to

20 Top Songs To Workout to

By Lydia Schoonderbeek

 

1.   Armin van Buuren & Trevor Guthrie

This is What It Feels Like (Antillas & Dankann Remix)

2.   Avicii

‘Addicted to you”

3.   Beyonce

“Flawless”

4.   David Guetta & Skylar Grey

“Shot Me Down”

5.   Drake

“Hold on, we’re going home (Kastle Remix)

6.   Ellie Goulding

“Burn”

7.   Enrique Iglesias & Pitbull

“I’m a Freak”

8.   Fitz & The Tantrums

“Out of My League”

9.   Grouplove

“Ways to Go”

10.  Jason Derulo & 2 Chainz

Talk Dirty

11.  Jerrod Niemann

“Drink to That All Night”

12.  Justin Timberlake

“TKO”

13.  Lady GaGa, R. Kelly & Rick Ross

“Do What U Want (DJWS Remix)”

14.  Lea Michele

“Louder”

15.  Macklemore, Ryan Lewis, Schoolboy Q & Hollis

“White Walls”

16.  Martin Garrix

“Animals”

17.  Neon Trees

“Sleeping with a Friend”

18.  Rihanna x Eminem

“The monster”

19.  Rudimental

“Free” (feat.Emeli Sande)

20.  Shakira & Rihanna

“Can’t Remember to Forget You”